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Baby snuggles

I'm not the cuddly type. 

Just ask my friend Becca. She enjoys giving me a hard time because I often sidestep a welcome hug.

I can't help it, I'm just not a touchy feely person. 

And it doesn't help that when you have little kids someone is always touching you. 

I mean- climbing on you-laying on you-grabbing at you with grimy hands- type of touching you. 

And I just need space. You know? 

But what I can't resist are baby snuggles. Innocent, pure, happy baby snuggles.

Reagan is feeling sick today. There are a lot of things I could be doing- making dinner, cleaning (always), or even my homework...? But instead I'm holding her. 

She's fast asleep. I could try to lay her down...

But despite my prickly exterior, I just can't resist baby snuggles.

And somehow I'm certain it will help her feel better faster! 

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    1. We need to get you some of these baby snuggles before she gets too big! We didn't get to see you when we hurried down a few weeks ago! Thanks for commenting! ❤️

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  2. I'm not a big hugger or snuggler either, but once in a while it's super nice to just sit and rest with a kid.

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    1. Yes! Once in a while! Haha. Though I do love and crave hugs from my husband. ❤️

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